Sunday, March 1, 2009

Behaviour Issues with our child

Here I am writing about one of our boys. It will be very personally and may not be suitable information for all parents. Please only take on board what you feel will help your family.

We are parents of five boys, all with their own personality. Life in our household is really full on and is never a dull moment.

Lately we have been dealing with our 10 year old and it slowly has become a issue that has gotten out of control.

He is a loving boy, and has such a kind soul. We have started to notice that the last few years his behaviour has become totally out of character, and harder and harder to control.

We have been searching for years for answers for his sudden out of control temper tantrums. We have read every parenting magazine and book that is out there. You name it, we have read it. While each book had lots of down to earth practical advice and information, each book did not seem to cover any chapters on what our daily life is like.

Slowly I have been pulling my out my hair, and seen as my husband does not have any hair to pull out, he has been going around the bend and up the wall!

On our search for answers we have searched high and low for help. We have been to natural therapists, chiropractors, doctors, parenting programs - all with little to no effect with his outcome.

Food has been a huge change in his diet. With little affect to his outburst - as a matter of fact - we have limited his diet to so much that he is down to the basics. Some days we saw huge progress, other days we were back where we started.

So back to more research, more looking. We have brought so many books over the years that we would be rich if we could re-sell them all!! Our final straw was just a few weeks ago, when one day I can remember saying "enough is enough". There must be something out there that can help?

Well someone was listing, somewhere. Because not long after stating "that there must be more information" that we have not yet read, kindness was given to our family. We were given information to a link, for a eBook that could most likely benefit our son and us as a family.

The eBook is written by a man who has dealt with families with out of control children suffering from disruptive behaviour, for the last 20 years.The behaviours he was describing were similar to those our child was displaying.

I was thinking "oh no, here we go again, another book about children, but will it help us?" I guess we got to the stage where anything had to be better than what we were doing! Because you guessed it - we purchased the ebook.

Showing you what you can get from the ebook will be better done by the author than me telling you what is in it, so click here to see if this ebook will help your family http://bookbase.hutt50.hop.clickbank.net/

I sat down and read the ebook within hours of purchasing it. I knew that what we had in our hands was worth gold, and that we had finally hit jackpot.

Does it work? Well we are in week one, so time will only tell. What I do know is that this ebook has become a lifeline that we are using for our family and for our son, to help him become the man he deserves to become. It covers basic information that makes sense. Information that we can use, that we can see will work.

What I will be doing in the next few weeks, if it is alright with you and your family, is to share our experiences and trials with our new parenting skills to help become better parents and for our son to become a better man.

Week by week we will be opening up our hearts and sharing with other parents what it is like to have to deal with a child that does not fit into the text book parenting books. So if you have a child that is out of control, please know that you are not alone. There are many children that are out there, and many parents like yourself and like us that are trying to deal with out of control children.

So join us on our journey and learn that life can only get better. Check the ebook out for your self, see if it can help you and your family to become the family you desereve.
http://bookbase.hutt50.hop.clickbank.net/

Follow us our journey from week to week, so you can see how we have the results we are after, and share with us how you are coping with your out of control child or teen. Please know that you are not alone, we are here and we are going through the same issues you are going through.

Till my next update, take care and remember laughter is the best medicine.